What I've been doing over these few days without posting anything was, basically thinking about: What really motivates me? And I asked my self 3 questions:
- How do I achieve my goals?
-When do I want to set my self a goal?
-By who I am pushed forward to go on and try it?
Sincerely, I was blocked out when I started thinking about that, because I'm not concerned about what is surrounding me everyday: friends, teachers, family, unknown people, society problems, economic problems, cultural problems... everything surrounding us make us not be concerned about what is happening and if what you really want to achieve is going to be possible or not.
What I've been noticing is that people that you are important to are going to be there, everyday, pushing you to the next level, but that doesn't mean that you just don't need to do anything, the key words here are HARD WORK. With hard work you can achieve that level of self-esteem that makes you feel good and proud of yourself. But, it always happens... When you put all of your effort in something and then you feel that you have not achieved it on what you have been putting effort, hours, and hours on it, you have even lost "fun" time for that, because you where really thinking that is the time to show everyone what you are capable of doing, how does that feel? Yes, is tough isn't it? I'm sure everyone has felt like that before. Really under your own pressure.
Let's be positive. We are human beings, we can commit an error, we can have really tough years because sometimes you don't feel capable of doing anything.
I have always been a positive person, and wanted to see everything positively, trying to understand every type of situation someone believe he/she is in and trying to put my self in his/her position, and give them advice or a tip to get the problem away as soon as possible, or just being mentally strong and being sure of them selves. When really tough times come on to you, just make yourself some questions: What do I really want? What would I recommend a friend to do if he/she had the same problem? Do I want to solve this problem? Am I going to stop studying because it worries me?
Am I going to stop studying because it worries me? That question is the one that you really need to think about, worrying too much and having that problem in your mind and does not let you study the way you should. Problems always have a solution. You can have 2 problems, the one you've got and the one you are creating to your self. Think about your future constantly, not in a 25 year future, but in the 2 years time future. And really focus that if an economic world wild crisis has a solution, a day-life problem has it too. Be secure of your self when you really want to solve a problem, to go ahead and say what you really think (but careful, with appropriate words and thinking two times before saying it).
