Focus.

Let's think today in a positive way, like any other day.

Everyday you wake up, try to see what surrounds you in a positive way, if that means setting goals, go for it. Get a piece of paper, a pen, and right what you really want to achieve. 
Think about a brainstorm:
 -Your goal
-Why is that you goal?
-How can you achieve it?
Sometimes you feel insecure about everything because you don't really know what is going to happen and if everything is going to succeed as you think is going to happen. It is very easy to take the easy path, the path in which you can walk smoothly and without problems, but always achieving a goal, makes you a much more experienced and mature person, since it makes you be knowledgeable about never giving up, and never leaving your dreams. 

What is good about being open-minded?

Firstly, this topic may have a large amount of arguments for and against. 

What I really think about having an open mind is basically getting to another persons thoughts and getting to know them further more than how they look like. This means that sometimes if you are really sure you have a true argument you need to focus in thinking what other people's situation is and how your help could benefit them, because you, as an individual would like to have economic, health, whatever help you need being guaranteed for you. However there are people that don't really care and just keep thinking whatever they think it is correct.
STOP.
Think.
Maybe there is a time in which, those people really feel guilty about what they did. 
There are times, in which changes are not done, even when you ask for those changes, even if you really think that person needs to change. They do not change.
What I really learned, is that individuals, people: teenagers, adults... Make the change when they really feel they need to make the change, not when they are asked to do so.

Life

Life is a struggle. Life will through curveballs at you, it will humble you, it will attempt to break you down. And just when you think things are starting to look up, life will smack you back down with ruthless indifference. But in that point, you just need to turn the button I CAN on. After this, you just need to take in conscience, that you are not the only one that suffers from those depressive times, and feeling that everything in your life is coming down. 

Life was never meant to be easy – its a constant struggle, with extreme lows and extreme highs. Remember that the times when its most important to persevere are the times that you will be most tested. Being tested is the most difficult task in tough times, because you are just keeping thinking: Why does all of this happen to me? Why can I not have an easier life? Why? But, just when the struggle passes, life gives you what you really wanted and you fought for. 

We only think, that people with normal life styles, have problems. But we are not the ones that suffer them. Always famous people, have struggles and feel bad with themselves. And also, pass through it, through strongness.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCTXV15mKQ4

NO as an answer.

In the past, I was the type of person that said "yes" to everything any individual told me. If they wanted something, I always was there for them. But there is a moment in time, where you notice how people move by convenience, by what suits their needs and what they most want to do in that moment. I have always believed in the 5 opportunities, since I have gave them, I know how awful they are, because if one person commits an error that hurts you, and sees you suffer for that, if you really care, you don't commit it again, because you don't want to see that person suffer. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like to see people suffer and I always try to help everyone. 

Dear me,

                  Today, I didn't sleep at all, I stood up all night thinking about what are my true feelings, what is it about I want to do with my life, with my day to day life. 

I started thinking about how I started to have feelings for the person I think I'm in love of... and you know what? I just thought about how love sometimes can be eternal... but that doesn't mean that, that love is the love you felt before, sometimes when something breaks, you still have affection, respect and good memories that make you still believe in that love that has made you be attached to that person. Not always there are good endings, sometimes there are ends that need to be hasty, because love is not the love everyone thinks it is, sometimes love can be addicted, either in a good or a bad way, and that can either hurt you or make you a better person.
This doesn't mean, that whatever you have passed with the person you have been with is not real or even true, because when you are in love, you become crazy. Being in love, is what everyone says "I'm crazy about you". Being crazy for someone, for someones look, smile, laugh...

Loyalty

I always tried to base my thoughts on: 

1. own respect

2. loyalty 

3. effort

4. goals

Focusing on those 4 facts. I found out people are not always the way they say they are, sometimes they really lie to you and make you believe on things that are not true. But once you find out that, you can get better on whatever you want following your own steps. 

Having own respect, makes you a strong and centered person, since it determinates the way you believe on people that are not loyal to you or not, also, the strongness you put on looking forward and letting anyone or anything make you fall. 

Being loyal, just following the steps to not being a problem to anyone and not hurting someone, just because you think about you and not on how that person can be hurted.

 Be supportive,for no other reason than friendship.

 Don't talk behind your back.

Give your friend your HONEST opinion.

 Don't test your friends' loyalty - it will backfire.

Take time to look at the needs of your friends.

Balance your loyalties with one another.

Balance your loyalties with each day need of your own life and your family.

Practice random acts of loyalty.

Making efforts, the kind of efforts that make you be a capable person to take your own decisions.

Goals, focus on the main goal. 
 Decide what you really want to achieve.

 Be specific and realistic about what you want to achieve.

 Set a deadline for your goals.

Write out your goals.

 Make your plan of action.

 Execute your plan.

 Review your goals daily.

 Always stay focused and never give up (what my blog is about)

Good times.

I'm on that type of mood that I just want to listen to music, why?
The other day I read in blog, that when you have a problem or a thought if you keep thinking about it during a long time, and the thought is hurtful it makes it hurt even more, since you just think in the one thousand different possibilities about feeling guilty about it. If you think a small amount of your time on it, it will in some hours or time disappear the anxiety of the problem. Remember, EVERY PROBLEM HAS A SOLUTION. Even though sometimes is hard, and creates on you dependency on that problem, just hold on a second and look back and see how much you have constructed.

When someone has a feeling that makes people feel anxious, or sometimes angry because you may feel that things are not occuring the way you thought they where, just take a moment and think that life is not easy, even more your teenager life where you suffer about everything; your aspect, parents, teachers, school, boyfriend/girlfriend, parties, holidays, and some of the teens drugs and alcohol. 

That a good point I like to introduce since, I've been always a risk-taker, I committed the error of entering in the wrong type of life. Yes, drugs. I've been 2 years of my life smoking with a group of people that did so. 2 years of my life thinking much more in smoking a cigarette than going out with my true friends, or going to do some sport, or doing anything that would had been much more beneficial for me. Those 2 years of my life have been a disaster for me, just because I was not concentrated in school, I was paying much more attention to another type of problems, that nowadays I don't even care at all, because the biggest step in my life was just focusing in what was going to be a benefit for me and what not. I just need to thank the people that have been at my side, because they've seen me cry, and be anxious about smoking, as well as my behavior. Smoking cigarettes, is a drug. My life changed from going training 3 days each week water polo to be going around doing nothing smoking, just killing myself little by little and thinking that I had a productive time, when in reality, I was just wasting it. Thanks to the person that now is my life I opened my eyes, and I stopped having my addiction. He showed me how I was just watching life pass, while I was in a bench smoking, and not having fun. Now, this last year without smoking anything, I've been introduced to new sports, to new people, to a whole new society group role that make me happy everyday it passes. So remember, if someone cans, you can. It's just having your mind in another part, just believing that you can do it, and finding ways to forget about it, and seeing what is benefiting you.