The other day I read in blog, that when you have a problem or a thought if you keep thinking about it during a long time, and the thought is hurtful it makes it hurt even more, since you just think in the one thousand different possibilities about feeling guilty about it. If you think a small amount of your time on it, it will in some hours or time disappear the anxiety of the problem. Remember, EVERY PROBLEM HAS A SOLUTION. Even though sometimes is hard, and creates on you dependency on that problem, just hold on a second and look back and see how much you have constructed.
When someone has a feeling that makes people feel anxious, or sometimes angry because you may feel that things are not occuring the way you thought they where, just take a moment and think that life is not easy, even more your teenager life where you suffer about everything; your aspect, parents, teachers, school, boyfriend/girlfriend, parties, holidays, and some of the teens drugs and alcohol.
That a good point I like to introduce since, I've been always a risk-taker, I committed the error of entering in the wrong type of life. Yes, drugs. I've been 2 years of my life smoking with a group of people that did so. 2 years of my life thinking much more in smoking a cigarette than going out with my true friends, or going to do some sport, or doing anything that would had been much more beneficial for me. Those 2 years of my life have been a disaster for me, just because I was not concentrated in school, I was paying much more attention to another type of problems, that nowadays I don't even care at all, because the biggest step in my life was just focusing in what was going to be a benefit for me and what not. I just need to thank the people that have been at my side, because they've seen me cry, and be anxious about smoking, as well as my behavior. Smoking cigarettes, is a drug. My life changed from going training 3 days each week water polo to be going around doing nothing smoking, just killing myself little by little and thinking that I had a productive time, when in reality, I was just wasting it. Thanks to the person that now is my life I opened my eyes, and I stopped having my addiction. He showed me how I was just watching life pass, while I was in a bench smoking, and not having fun. Now, this last year without smoking anything, I've been introduced to new sports, to new people, to a whole new society group role that make me happy everyday it passes. So remember, if someone cans, you can. It's just having your mind in another part, just believing that you can do it, and finding ways to forget about it, and seeing what is benefiting you.
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