Once, I remember I was feeling depressed because I had a bad day with my close friends and one of my closest friend came up to me and told me "Hey Inés, stop thinking about whay did you did wrong. Because if you believe you did not do anything wrong, don't start believing what does people want you to believe so that you go straight to them and tell them sorry por anything. And lil goofy (that's how she calls me) when things go left, turn right".
Stop for a moment, isn't that right? Sometimes people come up to you with some strange problem about what should I do? What should I say? Well, if you are right, clearly not what they want to listen. You are the one affected by the problem, not the other individual.
"Don't want to listen something that I don't believe I am"
How to turn right? Once the problem is just on top of you, just take a moment and think why that happened and why would you want to make the other person feel guilty of what he/she has done, and then when you think you are capable of talking seriously but calm, go for it, talk about the problem in a calmed way, trying to understand why that happened.
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